So my ex-girlfriend sent me a text this am asking how my night was. Responded I went to church then home, but if she meant Tuesday night (party at the St.
Francis Yacht Club hosted by another firm) it was ok, but was, as usual, thinking of her alot.
Among other things in our texts back and forth she said she knows she hurts me so she runs, and she can't stop hurting herself. I asked her to look to Christ for deliverence and said sin and meth will not have dominion over her if she does. Anyway, I had previously said I did not want to speak to her or see her until and unless she deleted her meth using associates from her phone and life. She said she would like to see me but w/o conditions. I did not agree and reiterated my conditions. Told her in a text today essentially that the conditions I had were not to control her, but because she was out of control and it hurts to see her hurting herself and letting others do the same...and that she would feel the same wa in my shoes...
Anyway, during the course of our texting I decided to change my conditons, said I would talk to her on the phone and, if she wished, take her to church with no conditions ...Thought that would leave a door open for her to recieve help if she really wants it... thoughts?
Among other things in our texts back and forth she said she knows she hurts me so she runs, and she can't stop hurting herself. I asked her to look to Christ for deliverence and said sin and meth will not have dominion over her if she does. Anyway, I had previously said I did not want to speak to her or see her until and unless she deleted her meth using associates from her phone and life. She said she would like to see me but w/o conditions. I did not agree and reiterated my conditions. Told her in a text today essentially that the conditions I had were not to control her, but because she was out of control and it hurts to see her hurting herself and letting others do the same...and that she would feel the same wa in my shoes...
Anyway, during the course of our texting I decided to change my conditons, said I would talk to her on the phone and, if she wished, take her to church with no conditions ...Thought that would leave a door open for her to recieve help if she really wants it... thoughts?
