So what's been going on the past couple days? Have you contacted a domestic violence organization so you can get some counseling through them and attend some excellent support groups? Did you pick up the paperwork packet for the restraining order? Did you call and get your phone numbers changed? And as Tenderheart said, did you make it to a meeting yet? I know the desire to mope around in woe is me mode is strong but you have to just out there and start making those necessary changes.

Jamie