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I was referred here by a member of this board. I've never known anyone to be so respectful as she is and that's why I came here -- "go to KCI,
they can help you."
My story: I am acquainted with a man who is shooting up meth. I've known him for about a year. He makes very good money at his trade and his family is loving and caring and not aware of what his life is like. When I met him his life was much different -- now it's dirtry and manipulative and everything distorted.
He lives in a run-down trailer. He makes $100 an hour at his trade - in a week he can make nearly $5,000. He has a drug addicted mother of 2 children living with him so she can do his laundry and dishes and clean up in exchange for drugs while she leaves the kids at the drug-using father's place.. blowjobs are not included.. it's not a sex thing.... he deals meth and cocain and anything else he wants... his wife left him when she got pregnant by another man. He embraces evil. He is narcissistic and mean and insecure and will %+!% you over before he says hello -- so long as he looks good doing it.
He likes to be the baddest !%%%*!*%@%%% you ever met.
Before now everything was a story and didn't matter... then I saw it for myself. He showed me how to shoot up, he's into fighting and beating the %%#% out of people who cross him, he's violent and getting more so, and he can make as much money as he wants.. he's also burdened by an exwife who humiliated him and left him and from whom he's divorced.
And each time I've spoken with him he mentions having his ex-wife killed.
It would break his mama's heart to know her only son is putting a needle in his arm and who is putting a hit on his ex wife.... it would also break his ex-wife's heart to know that the man she escaped from is talking about killing her - specially since she's in contact with him now... (you know how women do... thinking it's "closure" when it's really just adding fuel to the fire)..
He is not the only person I know who says things like this... heck, lots of people try to save face by making comments about their ex's... but this guy means it. Every time I've seen him he mentions having her killed. Murder for hire. A long time now... he's setting her up and she has no idea. Loaded weapons, violence, drugs, the lifestyle...
My heart is breaking because I'm not sure what to do... either way I can't win... tell his family and hope they help him... tell his ex he's talking about killing her and hoping she listens... but how?
I have spoken to priests, ministers, law enforcement -- nobody helps me.
Here I am... asking a bunch of strangers what to do.
He deals, he's dangerous, and he's unstable. Yet he is so damaged and sad and when I met him he was different.
His mama knows who I am so it wouldn't be a shocker for me to call her... maybe his parents would embrace a chance to help their son? As a parent would you want to know what's going on so you can help your own?
Or is this a situation where I should leave well enough alone?
I don't really care about the drugs and every other illegal thing he does.... what I am concerned about is my obligation as a human being to help others -- or at least to inform others of evil that is directed their way.
Do I tell his mom and dad what's really going on? Is that a favor or a curse?
Do I tell his ex what's really going on so she can protect herself or do I ignore it?
Please help me.
I have even thought of asking permission to post an open letter to his mom and secretly disclosing the URL to her so she and his father can help their son... and I also want to see that his exwife is aware, too.
But how much is my obligation as a human being?
Help me. Please. Thank you.,
My story: I am acquainted with a man who is shooting up meth. I've known him for about a year. He makes very good money at his trade and his family is loving and caring and not aware of what his life is like. When I met him his life was much different -- now it's dirtry and manipulative and everything distorted.
He lives in a run-down trailer. He makes $100 an hour at his trade - in a week he can make nearly $5,000. He has a drug addicted mother of 2 children living with him so she can do his laundry and dishes and clean up in exchange for drugs while she leaves the kids at the drug-using father's place.. blowjobs are not included.. it's not a sex thing.... he deals meth and cocain and anything else he wants... his wife left him when she got pregnant by another man. He embraces evil. He is narcissistic and mean and insecure and will %+!% you over before he says hello -- so long as he looks good doing it.
He likes to be the baddest !%%%*!*%@%%% you ever met.
Before now everything was a story and didn't matter... then I saw it for myself. He showed me how to shoot up, he's into fighting and beating the %%#% out of people who cross him, he's violent and getting more so, and he can make as much money as he wants.. he's also burdened by an exwife who humiliated him and left him and from whom he's divorced.
And each time I've spoken with him he mentions having his ex-wife killed.
It would break his mama's heart to know her only son is putting a needle in his arm and who is putting a hit on his ex wife.... it would also break his ex-wife's heart to know that the man she escaped from is talking about killing her - specially since she's in contact with him now... (you know how women do... thinking it's "closure" when it's really just adding fuel to the fire)..
He is not the only person I know who says things like this... heck, lots of people try to save face by making comments about their ex's... but this guy means it. Every time I've seen him he mentions having her killed. Murder for hire. A long time now... he's setting her up and she has no idea. Loaded weapons, violence, drugs, the lifestyle...
My heart is breaking because I'm not sure what to do... either way I can't win... tell his family and hope they help him... tell his ex he's talking about killing her and hoping she listens... but how?
I have spoken to priests, ministers, law enforcement -- nobody helps me.
Here I am... asking a bunch of strangers what to do.
He deals, he's dangerous, and he's unstable. Yet he is so damaged and sad and when I met him he was different.
His mama knows who I am so it wouldn't be a shocker for me to call her... maybe his parents would embrace a chance to help their son? As a parent would you want to know what's going on so you can help your own?
Or is this a situation where I should leave well enough alone?
I don't really care about the drugs and every other illegal thing he does.... what I am concerned about is my obligation as a human being to help others -- or at least to inform others of evil that is directed their way.
Do I tell his mom and dad what's really going on? Is that a favor or a curse?
Do I tell his ex what's really going on so she can protect herself or do I ignore it?
Please help me.
I have even thought of asking permission to post an open letter to his mom and secretly disclosing the URL to her so she and his father can help their son... and I also want to see that his exwife is aware, too.
But how much is my obligation as a human being?
Help me. Please. Thank you.,
Its taken me 47 years to
believe that..but its true 
