It is extraordinarily difficult for me, has I really did fall in love with him. when he's not using he is the most incredible, kind, generous of spirit, sweet and happy person you could ever hope to meet. When he slips, he will disappear 4 anywhere from 12 hours to a couple of days at a time, and won't answer calls or texts. After each incident he is extremely despondent about not being able to have resisted.
Everything is perfect in our relationship except for this. I'm also having a terrible time with the lack of sex. He has no sexual desire whatsoever, except for when he is doing the drug, and since he disappears, I am sure that he is acting out those desires with strangers instead of me, who loves him.
After the most recent incident he has agreed to seek out help. I understand that a person can get back to normal, and even enjoy a healthy sex life with their partner, but first they have to stop completely and then it takes a long time. I am willing to wait, and be there to support and help him, but I also understand that every time someone slips, it resets the clock. I can't wait forever to have a normal relationship. Please offer advice on how to deal with this situation?