my husband of 24 years became addicted to Ice about 3 years ago. In short we lost our home our kids moved out and our world became an ongoing hell.
I finally had reached my point of leaving him in December and moved out after being left in fear of my life due to the criminal activity that he was part of. He instantly hooked up with another female addict and within a few weeks was arrested yet again with guns and Ice in his possession. He was granted bail while he attended a court program to help him go thru withdrawals. For 4 months I did not see him only made contact with him via txt.
at this stage he was clean and found himself feeling guilty for what he put us thru. Begged to be taken back, left the other women and moved in with our kids and a month latter back with me. The other women is still using and keeps trying go drag him back makes him feel guilty about what ever she can throw at him. Know he blames me for his outcome and that I abandoned him when he needed me?
He he is not interested in sex and shows emotions occasionally. Has mood swings and jumps between me and the other women I have a preferred name for her but I am a lady.
I am am confused if he is genuine in his desire to re-kindle or it is just the withdrawals process working its evil yet again. Is it normal for stages of guilt and then blame to rear there ugly heads repeatably during this process. The lack of sex as well is discomforting as we were active before. Does any of this make sense to anyone else.