My husband and I have been together for 5 years, but met over 8 years ago in AA. He was there for an addiction to meth. He has been acting very differently, rage like I've never seen before, somewhat irrational things make him mad, and he's really distant and up late hours. I found a straw that was cut to 1/4 length, melted on one end, and pointed on the other. There was a white powder along the inside. When I asked him what it was, (it's the two of us and my 7 year old daughter in the house, and have had not guests over for a while,) he gave me some flimsy explanations and refused to talk more about it. Then he got horribly angry the next day, yelled awful things to me, and left. Now he's coming and going at weird hours, completely avoiding me and won't talk to me at all, and won't respond to texts, emails or calls. I'm trying not to bug him too much, and I don't want to push him away or make him think I'm going to be mad or "punish" him for this, I just want to know from himself that he's doing drugs and talk about what to do next. I know I can't make him stop, but I want to know if he plans to continue using so I can figure out what I should don. I just feel sort of afraid to be around him right now. Is it wrong if I ask him to leave and stay somewhere else? I don't think this is safe for my daughter to be around.