Sorry Race if that was harsh, as Abbey says. Please forgive me, I don't mean to be harsh, I just hate seeing you get taken to the cleaners. You're young, have a good job, nice place, (used to have a nice fridge, couch, and Nikes, lol,) and I see your getting drawn into things you never probably would have thought about, (like the "E incident,") and you stand to lose so much. Just being around an active addict and the craziness draws us in somehow. I do believe we get addicted to the drama - how boring and hum-ho our lives are without our addicts, huh? Can you set a time limit, like say a month - NO CONTACT - and see how that goes?

NOW, she wants you to kidnap her and keep her holed up in a cabin in the woods so she can't get meth? Not a good idea, and you say you aren't going to do it, but you are here asking about it. . . Yeah it worked with SnookerStar, but only because he was underage and his parents took total control and got their son back. With this girl, you could be accussed of holding her against her will. It doesn't matter how far out in the woods or on what mountaintop she goes, there she will be still addicted to meth and not learning to live in a world where it is all around.

Why not send HER here? If she is serious about getting clean, well, this is a really good place to start.

Take Care,
Star <><