Hmmm, my ex asked me to do the same thing, "move me away from here", (I've always been the one with the money and property...go figure....enablers'r'us.....)

But you are so right, he told me he did drugs because he was lonely, but then he told me he did those drugs the first time with two other people....lonely my butt, it was just a guilt trip to me, to justify his actions...he didn't tell me 'cause he "was ashamed".....yep, ashamed to look in the mirror, lonely 'cause he did not like himself, and what else.....who knows, I am done that game, my life is too valuable and fun and ....welll, so non dramatic right now, it's kinda weird! ;-)