"gone is gone... sometimes physical death is easier to deal with because
it's final whereas with relationships, the person still exists and it's harder to deal with."

Second that.

My first husband abused me so I had to leave him after my wish of him passing in a tragic car accident never came to fruition.

My second husband left me... just decided he didn't love me anymore... nice rejection feeling.

My friend's husband died... awful awful thing.... BUT she can go through life knowing he LOVED HER. She'll ALWAYS have his love.

My second husband is getting married again at the end of this month; I hope he loves her more than he loved me, I wouldn't want anyone else to have to go through that.

WW, you are the amazing and compassionate person you are today because of what you've been through. You're a true example of how to use tragedy and make the most of it, you've learned through it.

If I'd never been abused I'd have less compassion for other abused women. If I'd never been homeless I'd have less compassion for the homeless. I've never been a true drug addict so I often times lack compassion for the addicts (sorry for that).

((((((Hugs for you)))))) I pray your ordeal mellows out soon so you can have some closure.

M.