Justplaintired!

I'm sorry you're hurting like this........I remember a time when I too drove myself crazy with questions as to WHY.....and there was no meth involved!

I spent years loving a man, who was incapable of returning that love, in a sincere and honest way.

What a shock it was to learn that the loving touch and look, when he stared into my eyes with my face cupped gently in his hands, wasn't a look and touch just meant for me!..........

Gosh, I hate to admit this, but YES!!! I saw this exact look and touch, being used to seduce another woman, while I peaked through a key hole, down on my knees! (I think there's an old song with a line about looking through a keyhole down on your knees...anybody remember it?)

Being cheated on and decieved says more about the cheater than it says about you!

You could be the most beautiful, talented, loving person in the world, and that would still not change a cheater into a faithful man (or woman)!!!! Some men/women are addicted to the "intoxicating newness" of relationships....and seek out another relationship as soon as the "newness fix" wears off..........it's just another form of addiction, from which they get a "rush" of "feel-good" chemicals in the brain.

It doesn't matter if you're as old as Methusala....it's never too late to be loved for who you are. I'd rather have a day of real love, than a lifetime of phoney BS!!!

Don't settle for less than you deserve!!!

Do you know the bible passage that tells us "Don't cast your pearls before the swine?" It means that we shouldn't waste our precious gifts on those who do not have the ability to recognize quality nor appreciate it.........as they will just trample our precious gems in the mud!

Wishing you well!

Love,

Nano