Justired - I think part of why it is hard to face reality with it when it comes to an addict is that we want so badly to blame the drug and not the person.


But as Sfj says - "meth gets too much credit"...

Additionally somehow some of us probably believe that their behaviour means something about our value... The truth is the beahviour we tolerate says something about the value we place on ourselves. I know this and still struggle with it although I am seeing now that I am not so willing to tolerate or look past warning flags people display to me as I once was with my ex...




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