Snooker- Dam that was a crazy story! I wasn't expecting that reply!

Basically, I had just meant that people (except maybe in extreme cases!), are in the places that they are in, in that momment in time, holding that bag of dope because they chose to be there.

And if you are sitting across from someone who is smoking, using or whatever...before you blame them for tempting you, maybe you should ask yourself why you are sitting there in the same room...

When I was using, I found it easy to blame other people.

I used to blame my ex when I was shooting... When i was using it was easy to pass the blame...

...it's called denial.
It's also called not taking responsability for your own actions.

I could hit someone and then blame somone else, it doesn't change the fact that it is my fault.