This is exactly what I'm talking about!!!!!! How can you even THINK of leaving your child, what is most dear to you or what SHOULD be most dear to you, in DANGER like that Cachola????????? WTF????????????? CPS should be called and will be called one day if you continue to put your baby in danger. That's what happens, that or the babies end up DEAD, VICTIMS OF ABUSE, grow up to BE ADDICTS too. I can't believe some people. Screw this guy who is on drugs, what he does shouldn't matter. What should matter to you is getting yourself and your baby out of that situation TODAY. Go to a domestic violence shelter, kick him out and get a restraining order, I don't care what you do but get rid of him. He's on drugs, he uses drugs around your BABY, you can get your baby taken for leaving your child with him or to for even residing with him. Get a clue, when you have a kid the kid COMES FIRST. Not some man on meth. Get your priorities straight. Sorry but I have NO SYMPATHY for people who stick by someone in active addiction and put their kids at risk on the daily. What for, for the love of some drugged up jerk????

I'm a addict in recovery and when I was using I didn't have kids. I would have been horrid around kids with my selfish addict me me me behavior. When I had my son I was sober and I had no problem making the decision to end it with his father due to his antisocial behavior, continued drug abuse, nonsupportive behavior, deadbeat unwilling to contribute any meaningful support toward the care of his child, his violent tendencies, his verbal abuse, the list goes on and on. I have a restraining order and have been done with him for two years next month. Life couldn't be better without him. I've sought help for myself not only for my addiction but my troubled childhood, poor relationship choices, nonexistent boundaries, and much more.


Jamie