I think absitance & time - some of us stay clean ....... SOME. Some of us are able to live happy lives.

But almost all who are able and willing to do the 12 steps .... read the book ... and follow direction ... those that actually put in more then they think they can have ALL HAVE QUALITY SOBRIETY ..... Now some do it .... and then stop and are miserable. Sober But miserable.

If I am going to be sober .... I want what is inside of me to feel good ... to have some peace .. a solution to living that not only works... but gives my life better quality - I do not want to be miserable. there are days I am because I choose to be. But then I take action and I feel better.


All of us the same yet different ............ 12 step sobriety if done with all you have (not easy - but do able) offers you QUALITY SOBRIETY and an AMAZING LIFE ...........

I know it isnt for everyone ......... and that is cool ........ But for those that it is - An amazing life is what you get out of it. NOT PERFECT .... but amazing ... besides perfect - is Boring IMO.