well said danimal - I will try to keep myself in check. My anger stems from the fact that I was able to get her into treatment, she was doing well, and then he went to visit her...he scooped her from there and started the cycle up again. She had a chance and he took it away. Now she's a mess.

Ultimately I know its up to her to stop on her own, and find her way. I just don't see it happening anytime soon.