lil'
"sum1 on here put me down in an "over doing" it kind of way"

was in rebuttal to your initial "over doing...put down"...

in contrast to the claim ..."now Im a lil too, actually nice and idk"

Double standards don't apply, our words are like a boomerang....what goes around comes around.

again...our energy might best be spent on Robby rather than chastising and judging each other for our various replies to him.

"nice" is a two way street.

funny [not] how a variety interchanges with one addict can turn so many against each other via challenges, moderating and censorship of the rhetoric others choose.

"Tough love" is just that....tough....and what appears to "mean" can simply be going out on a limb and taking risks when all else seems to have failed.