It isnt about judging you sir, it is reading your words. Thou they are from you, they have been read here many times written by many family members who suffer as you do now and your children.

Never for a second think I am judging you!

I am your wife, just in recovery. I was the cheater, the liar and the theif, I robbed my children of a family that could of been fairytale, but I was a drug addict, married to an addict.

All I say, is you keep your side of the street clean, and good will come from that. I PROMISE YOU!

it is when we are hateful, spy, sabatoge, lie and all the other things we tend to do when our heart is HURTING...try to let it go.

YOU ARE IMPORTANT, is my main message.

My children are very important to me,

BUT I COME FIRST, because without my wellbeing....

I have nothing.


Happy Holidays and New Year, enjoy your children.

keep coming here, please.

love deb