hummmmmmmmmmm...


lets see...finding happiness for the kids...will make you eventually find happiness for yourself?

you got it all backwards...

a child strength and happiness...grows as they see their parents grow from pain and loss...

YOU ARE THE EXAMPLE...not the other way around...

you are someone other then their dad...your a man...who is in pain...you have an identity to find in all this as well...


grow from this...or the pain will stay and rot your heart and soul