Hello, I'm not going to respond to your social stantards because I met and been friends with people you would call "hillbilly's" and they were none drug useing good people just bad hygene, and maybe made some bad decisions along the way. But I will say she could be useing meth or just an alcoholic. I'm a former user and I hid it from my wife very well for a very long time. She thaught the same thing as you. She thought I was cheating on her but in fact I was doing meth. Not only doing it but I was cooking it also. I didn't stay out all night nor did I stay up for days at a time even though I was snorting 5 grams of meth every 6 days for 6 years. I was useing for 3 years before she caught me red handed. I told her I would quit, but kept on useing for another 3 years. I just hid it better untill I couldn't hide it anymore. some people can sleep while on meth, they just train themselves to bo so. I would get in bed the same time she did and wait for her to fall asleep. When she did I'd get up an go out to our barn also, and stay there untill midnight or one o"clock smoking pot instead of drinking alcohol. Then get in bed and wake up at 5:30 to go to work and do it all over again. Anyway I'm rambling. She can clean up and get her life back together. All I needed was a reason to do so and the means to do it. When your addicted to meth your brain tells you that you can't live without it. Beleave me it's just as real as telling you that you have to go without oxygen from now on. She needs someone to show her the way. And I'll tell you, I'm sure glad my wife didn't leave me because I probably wouldn't have quit. I've been clean for 4 years now and I know I could't have done it without rehab, my wife and my family. Meth sucks out all of your happiness and joy. My wife, kids, mom and dad have helped give some of it back and I LOVE THEM FOR THAT! I COULDN'T HAVE DONE IT WITHOUT THEM!!!!!