The kids are more important to me now than ever, and they always have been pretty darn important (i.e., top of the list). My therapist said that doing this for my kids will help me help myself in the long run, make me open to the thought that I deserve better and enable me to go after that How very true.......this is what keeps me going........., and trying to understand how the other parent can give up something so special in life, as a very true and sincere relationship with their children, the love of their children, is just mind boggling to me! Let's see...........kids, or glass pipe, kids or glass pipe,...............ok, glass pipe! HOW SAD!