Niners..........keep doing what you are doing! Dont change one thing about you!

You are a beautiful person and it comes shining through, no matter what words are used.

I think like you do...........we ALL have one common goal and it is to HELP others that WANT help.....and what I mean by want help.............is that they truly want it and will except the advice and try. That is what I mean.

Some people want to quit being in pain, but someone else to just make it happen for them..............that is a lost case and HERE is where I learned that. If someone wants help, they have to be willing to do whatever it takes to get the help......if not, then I think we need to focus on people who come here and WANT whole heartly help.

Way to many times a new person comes here and gets overshadowed by someone else's drama.

I can only speak for myself but once I have offered everything I have to offer (which isn't much) and someone doesn't listen or help themselfs, it is time to move onto someone who does want a shot at a helping hand.

If I was to continue to reach out to someone day after day and all the while investing my heart, I would become insane. Why? Because it would be a behavior that my heart was invested in.........I would say the same things and I would expect a different results..........only when we try to help someone that doesn't want to utilize that help.........we will only drive ourself insane.

Hang in there niners.

Love,
Katie