oh grumps, this is a hard one...........

.......My first instinct is to say, *God*......but I think maybe I happened to God.....instead of God happening to me......
...that being said,.

I think it is a three way tie...
~~~~~when I walked into that ER room , not knowing yet if my son was blind and when he LOOKED at me, and said,
*Mother, My Mind is the same...*
~~~~~when I got the phone call from my daughter who had been in a very abusive relationship for 10 years, and she said,
*Mother,I have left him, Help me.*
~~~~~at Thanksgiving the other day, and my youngest daughter stood behind me for the longest time while I was sitting at the table,
And she was just playing with my hair and touching my shoulders. She is finally relaxing around me!

So I guess if I had to distill it down , I would just say, My Children.