Hi, I am sorry you are going through this.

You have to follow your gut on this. You know if she is doing meth or not.

What you have described does sound like she is.

I ended my marriage recently too. The betrayal was too much for me to get past.

I have kids who need their mother too. I cant make her show up to it. I am prepared to take the reponsibility of raising them without her. All the signs point to that happening.

Protect yourself. My wife allowed people in my house that caused all of the identity theft problems you could imagine. She was a part of it. I sincerely tried to work it out, but in the end I had to let her live her life, and let her go.

My marriage wasnt as long as yours. My kids are still babies. 3 and 21 months.

Your not responsible for her addiction. Dont enable her. Protect yourself, and be good to yourself.

Welcome to KCI. Im sorry you have to be here, but I'm glad you found it. There are alot of good people here, both recovering addicts, and loved ones. I am both.