I was thinking of this cause she always wanted to get some help to deal with her own problems. Even in the recent months she was asking for me to get her some help in therapy and some marriage counseling. I always told her that she needed to be clean before we tried this, would also think that the therapist would say the same.

I also have the thought that once she does see someone that she can be open about her addiction and why she thinks she needs to use etc. that it might help her where she would want to take the next step and get help in rehab.

Maybe after a someone that she opens up to, suggest it and breaks it down for her.. Not sure.

All I know is the people that she is open with now is all users and family. So she is doomed until she understands that she cant deal with her problems or addiction till she disassociates herself with those that will hinder her ability to get healthy

and clean again.

Or till she hits the bottom and it starts to hurt her more to use than not to use.. Her family has several people that have been using for 25 years. And they seem to hold it together. Theres also ones there that are about to loose a leg, one about to

have heart surgery and another back to the pen for 10. Sad part is that she watched her sister loose both of her kids due to meth. She always despised this group and what they did to her sister. Her aunt is the main sorce. Bad deal.. Now shes stuck in it..

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