Hi Ron,

We just went thru a similar situation with my daughter. She had 3 years clean.

That was "had"

She says she only picked up one time.....immediately thought "OMG...what did I just do?"

I don't believe that. Physically she may have only picked it up once...but alot of her other actions
were working her toward the relapse. I see that now. Most were subtle.
But...deep in my gut...I knew something wasn't right.

In my opinion....not going to meetings is the number one thing that starts the slide.

I agree with Danimal. If your daughter is clean..she will jump at the chance to prove it to you.

If I had it to do over...I would have had a serious talk about going to meetings on a regular basis.

I hope this helps.

Abbey