Hi Robert,

I don't think I've responded to any of your posts yet. But, I am always glad to read you.
You are so inspiring.

First, I want to say bummer dude.

Second...I want to say congratulations....because, you know that once that little
one takes it's first breath....you will fall in love.

Third....I want to say....there are worse things. Pregnancy isn't a terminal illness.
That is something you can be thankful for.
You can choose right now to be disappointed, overwhelmed etc.

Or you can choose to be joyful, hopeful and proud.

It is disappointing when they come into the world...under less than perfect circumstances.
Both of my grandkids came at seemingly the worst possible times of my daughters life.
But...I wouldn't trade them for the world.

I don't know how old your daughter is....but, it seems to me that she needs to go with baby daddy and
start paying their own rent and bills. Until they are out on their own...there is no way for them to know
what that is all about.

You could help them work on this in a really loving way. They have made a family now. Families should have their
own place....right?

Have faith.

Abbey