I totally co-sign everything written above.

Too bad Suzy is too young to just fly over by herself. Jamie is going to have to bring here, and then she will be there!

The behavioral contract is a really good idea. STICK TO IT. All this is for Suzy, not Jamie after all. Jamie knows what she needs to do to get better, and chooses not to.

Suzy is so lucky to have a loving grandma like you, and Jamie SHOULD realize what a wonderful woman she has for a mother.

I wish you the best and am sending lots of positive vibes your way! I think you are awesome Bobbie!

Lots of love,
Kelly