I just saw her at Wal Mart - she got a job as a greeter.

(sorry, couldn't resist)

I love Luv - she can take as long as she wants to figure herself or her situation or whatever else she needs to figure out for herself and her kids.

I love her just the way she is - that's how you love your friends. She isn't hurting anybody or anything - she didn't ask for any recipes - she just is a girl doing the best she can like the rest of us.

Live and let live -

We all rock anyway - all of us - we are all at different ends of the pool here - some are dipping their toes in sobriety, some are admiring the view - some are learning to swim - and there's always the one who has to jump in and dive bomb.