Well several months later & no major improvement. I found anothe pipe in his car.  I guess he just expects me to accept him how he his. He tells me that I know he will always struggle with addiction but I feel like I have given so many chances & he keeps on doing it. My son is starting high school this year my daughter still in elementary school & I dont want them to keep on living like this. He is good with the kids but I dont know how healthy living like this is.  Hes always on efge & we argue for the simplist if things.   I have a great career & he's jeporadizing everything by driving around with a pipe in the car thats in my name AND driving the kids around.    I dont know how to accept him doing dope whenever he wants.  He lost another job & just got a new one. Doesn't attend any NA meetings.  I think Im just fooling myself thinking he will stop.  When do I say enough!?