I love this, jokersgirl.  I've tried so hard to keep things normal between my boyfriend and me.  I must admit it's tempting to berate him for being so stupid as to use meth, but then I remind myself that I live in my own glass house with alcohol.  People do stupid things.  It doesn't make them bad people.  Yeah, meth has an amazing stigma attached to it.  I work at a large company, and now look at the young, skinny, energetic ones, and wonder "are they on meth?"

As for the issue at hand, I agree that we don't have the long-term context.  Yet if there is a meth user reaching out for help, I think we need to be there for her.  I am sadly realizing that I'm not much help here to meth users, never having done it myself, never having had to overcome the horrible addiction.  If I have any use here, it's more for the "loved ones."  I think her leaving it to be found was a cry for help.  I'm now thinking of another post about needing to be "number 1."  ARgh.  I'm really not in a position to comment on the situation, especially since so many of you more experienced people are getting yellow and red flags.