I don't see why her boyfriend is being called cruel, nothing he does or doesn't can be blamed for her using. We don't know what she's put him through and he may have reached his limit. It is her responsibility to get clean.

I feel bad for her being homeless and hope she's found a safe place to live, and I hope she truly does recover from this. But it's not fair to say that if she spirals down it's his fault because he kicked her out. Her using is ALL 100% her choice plain and simple. Like I said, we don't know the whole story from her at all, and certainly not his side.

I applaud her quitting, but I get tired of the loved ones getting a bad rap for drawing a firm hard line. Meth destroys lives, having family and friends cut an addict out is a very reasonable natural consequence.

I get sick of addicts whining because they are angry how they are being treated! What do you expect? Think about what you've done to your family! There is naturally a lot of anger and hostility for your actions and good for you if you quit, but make no mistake, the hurts you've caused run very deep in some cases depending on the level of stupidity you sunk too. Just because you are getting clean, and maybe apologized does not wipe away the troubles you may have caused. Relationships may never be salvaged. Some families do heal and remain in tact and that is awesome. But many more never fully recover and the majority are damaged for ever.

I would never hide my anger or hurt because a loved one is trying to quit. It's not fair to expect anyone too! I think the loved ones feeling and hurts are treated as if they 'owe' an addict all this love and support! I say get clean, be clean a LONG LONG time then we will see, but until then? GTFO!!! She's homeless because she chose to do drugs. It's that simple. Poor girl, I hope she gets her life together. And then to say she might find someone better? She just may have lost the best shed ever have! I don't know to many families that welcome a former meth addict in like some prize. The mistrust and stigma will follow a long long time. And that's reality. The thing I don't get is why, with all the knowledge about this drug, the huge social backlash that comes when it gets out, why even try it? Why wreck your life intentionally?