As a loved one who's EX husband got caught up in meth and all the drama, lies, cheating and more lies, I am going to fathom a guess that he kicked her out because he has had it.

We don't know what or how things have been happening in her relationship on account of her drug use. The fact is, he made it clear to her that if she used again she was out. She used again. Case closed. I kicked my husband out and divorced him immediately. I have let go of the anger from that time, and stupidly tried to let him back in my life a time or two. Yet each time he proved me a fool. He either had not quit or had started again, I don't know, I don't care.

What I'm saying is, the true recovery is rare and the families suffer huge. I know the addict does as well too. I see how they struggle to quit, some falling right back into it, and some try and try and still can't kick it, some try and truly succeed and get their lives back on track (yea!! Good on them) but the issue is in him kicking her out, and her remorse. I hope she truly gets clean and gets out of that world. Please young lady, you can do this! Find a safe place to live and get YOUR HEALTH back! He had every right to boot you out! I sure would not want an addict in my house! No one does! Get you life in order and who knows if you can work it out or not.

I don't agree with him being blasted for kicking her out. We don't know what he's had to endure on account of her addiction. It's not fair to attack him! No one should have to tolerate lies and addiction and the bullshit that goes with meth! No one! We all read and have lived the destruction in one form or another on what the addicts put families through. I will always always say kick them out! No one should have to Molly coddle a drug addict! If she truly loved this guy and wanted her relationship to flourish? She would not have done it. It's black and white! Young lady, people love you and care for you, get off the drug, quit downplaying a hit here or there. It's a serious addiction that destroys lives! You are to good to throw yours away. Forget about him right now and take care of YOU! Get into groups and work your ass off. Life is out here waiting for you to enjoy!!! It's Gods gift to YOU!!

Please get help, and stay on the path to recovery, there are no guarantees he will forgive you so don't plan on it, the most important person in your life is YOU! I hope you nothing but the best and LEARN from this, meth will cost you more and more. You are not going to win this game, no one does! You have a heart and love in that heart, that is huge! Be well. Take care and get into meetings to save yourself! You are on the right path just slug it out! You will find peace and happiness eventually. I promise.  

Last Edited By: monroe1 Apr 4 14 11:01 PM. Edited 2 times.