c/p..."When asking for advice, yes, everyone wants to present themselves in the best possible light, again, it's a trust thing."

----well then they aren't going to get the best advice for their particular situation if they aren't fully honest with themselves and others about what their particular situation might entail.

---- just as IF you DOnt tell your doctor everything that pertains to whats wrong with you, you may not get the Right treatment or perscription for what is really ailing you. thus thwarting your own best interests in getting the help you need, or finding a livable solution or full recovery to what i ailing you or causing you to be ill or sick in the first place