You are certainly right about that, and there is most likely more to the story than is seen here.

And even if there weren't, even if that really IS all that there is, he is certainly within his right to break it off with her over it, or even with no reason whatsoever. They aren't married, and he owes her no explanation, in truth. Common courtesy might dictate that you don't put someone out immediately, with no where to go.....but if it is his house, he can do what he wants. It sounds harsh, but we only know one side, and if they aren't married, he can break up with her even for no reason if he wanted to. And there may be God only knows what other issues going on.

I think when people are married, they should at least try, but if the other person isn't going to own up to it (half the time, they will boldfaced lie that they are even using, despite evidence to the contrary...I think the crazy lying is a lot of times what ruins relationships, rather than the drugs. That, and the desire seen in a percentage of drug users to bring their penis or vagina into contact with as many other penises and vaginas as humanly possible.) I don't really know what that's about, though I can understand there is something about meth that makes you horny. Why, I do not know, but it indeed can. People I guess forget that even if your spouse is not available or in the mood, you can take care of these things on your own. You just bring a sexy thing to mind, and you are all set. We call this source of sexy thoughts the "Spank Bank". You know. Collin Farrell, talking all Irish? Bank that sh*t for later.

There is no way anyone should have to put up with the absolute insanity, the BS, the lies, and the potential for violence someone actively using often presents. It's frightening, confusing, and depressing. When you are actively using and enslaved in the downward spiral of meth hell, you are going to pretty much do what you have to do to keep yourself in meth. You may be tired and sick of it, but you are on a runaway train you don't even know how to get off of. Do you like to lie? No. But how can you say, "I'm going to use the house payment to buy dope....I'll figure something out later." You can't....because it's idiotic. But you NEED it. Do you love your family? Of course! Are you aware you are putting them through hell? In a detached kind of way, yes. Do you feel bad about it? Yes, really bad, and I need to get high to forget it.

It's a catch 22, no one wins, all that comes is pain and more pain for everyone.