I'm thinking the problem might be that many of you have been on this forum for a while, and the usual "differences" have resulted from being in "long-term relationships."  Please consider how it looks to a newtimer coming in.  If this forum is to be an outreach, please keep looking forward to the next person who turns to you for help.  I have loved this forum since I first found it by googling meth addiction, and I think it is the powerhouse of any other googled hits.  I already feel I belong here, though I'm speaking most forwardly, as a new user.  We are "going to get back to the Garden," because I've been so impressed by all the people I have seen here.  I do it myself!  I lose the greater vision and descend into pettiness.  Let's look at issues here (because of them are NOT petty).

WTF did I just write?