God i feel like i cant take this anymore. My work is imploding. My wife and i are back to arguing. Badly, again. I dont know whats wrong with me. I dont know me anymore. Things went good for a few days and now this! We have no money. We're broke. So what does she do, after i tell her not to? Put $40 on a credit card. Usually no big deal. But that card already has $10,800 on it courtesy of trips to take care of and cremate my dad as he was dying and after his death. Even if that $40 was paid yesterday it still counts towards 1-the average daily balance and 2-is the last thing to get paid off so it accrues interest til the card has a zero balance. That $40 just turned into $400. On top of that 2 weeks ago she asked about getting a chip in the windshield fixed. I told her who to call. Well she put it off. Now the chip is a foot long crack, that she noticed thursday but didnt tell me about til today, and the windshield has to be replaced. Free chip repair just turned into $250. I had the canle suspended because well, i need to save money somewhere. And shes wondering why im pissed. I really cant take the stress anymore. You mentioned drinking, thats what im about to turn to. The kids ignored me telling them not to go into the dog house but what am i finding in there? Their socks. I asked how the socks got there. When we were playing in there, was the response. I told them when we moved in not to go in there. So i told them fine, i pulled the blankets and towels and comforter that was in there already. You can throw them away and get the other little things in there. Whatd they do? $%@+%%! to mom who tried yelling at me. Are you %%@@#!# kidding me? Its ok with you for them to go in there and play but not to retrieve their %+$$? Really? FML!