I am not a user I am a mere wife of an addict who same as you used hard for 9 months he's been clean for 11 weeks tomorrow and he's doing great just wanted to say welcome that's all. Share this journey with your wife it will help her aswell.......trust me.

I am in Australia so we shall never cross paths :-)
Good luck and persevere with all you have planned it will be worth it in the end.