My husband had been clean for about 5 yrs.  (He has recently replased this year due to his mother passing away suddenly). We are LDS and last year he received his preisthood and baptized our son when he turned 8.  My husband hadn't been active in our church since he was about 12.  So this was a major achievement in his life.  We have the goal to go to an LDS temple and be sealed together as a family with our son.  We also want to have another child.  Even with this relapse I believe we still have a chance to accomplish our goals.  I just hope that we can make it through this period in our life.