Thanks yes, he is well now. 20 year olds bounce back quicker than i would i think lol.

He unfortunately chose to forgo the health insurance he could have purchased from the guards for $20 a month. Since he lied to me and told me he had insurance, I dropped him from our Blue Cross to save us $100 a month. So this whole thing, he was uninsured for. Lots of bills pouring in, he owes over $200,000 for this stunt. He will of course have to file medical bankruptcy or be declared impoverished by the state (which is so unfair to taxpayers to have to pick up the burden of his stupidity). Unfortunately, he is unemployed and will not go to college....he lied and said he was but he was not. He is quite the little manipulator. He went behind our backs and had his grandparents cosign for him a brand new vehicle. Now he cannot pay it and they are. But he bought another truck when his guards bonus came.

I do not understand him, it is like he has changed in the last few years and i do not know this strange, foreign, crazy person in my son's body. We were SO alike when he was little. So alike. Now he wants to just lay around, party, drink, and have someone else pick up the tab. He has charged other things to us, but only smaller things like car parts and he was charging at the drive in and went and got his teeth cleaned and sent the bill to us. He also tried to stick us for a bill to have body work done on his car before this one because he was drunk and wrecked it but we did make him go to the guy who did the body work and work his debt off. This is a debt I cannot take over for him. He will have to take responsibility for it. The hospital gave him paperwork to fill out and he has not done it but has tried to get me to, so far i keep telling him he must do this.

He was responsible for having a party here (after the accident when we were visiting my dad in the hospital) and there was underage drinking in my home, stealing pain pills from his grandma even though he is prescribed them, selling some to another girl, and trying to go and sell this blazer he gave to one of my friends to sell it for scrap. He got mad when we were not doing like he wanted and coming down on him, so he has moved out. He is now living with grandma and grandpa and mooching off them. I told them not to let him, so he would have to go to school, but they did it anyways. He just kind of hangs out and supposedly applies for jobs.

I have told him i feel he has a drinking problem and i would like him to go to counseling with us but he refuses. So for now, it is what it is. Physically, he is fine...otherwise he is quite a mess. But for right now, i don't have to deal with him on a day to day basis (although i feel guilty that the grandparents are saddled with it). So for right now, i am at peace with it as much as i can be.