I agree with Devon

I have hurt people in my drinking days.... I mean got into fights and really hurt some people. Things I am so so so embarrassed of now, things I am thankful that no one died.......

But, I am not that kind of person without drinking, never was a violent, mean, hateful person. I grew out of that stage also... I have been drunk in the past 10 years or so... and never once got mean. I really think it takes a combination of things.