It is different in my opinion being in a marriage with an addict and having a child as an addict. You can pick your spouse but your child is yours forever. I don't see how I can clearly set boundaries because everything revolves around enabling meth use. Our money is ours. He has to buy it somehow. He has to keep drugs somewhere. He has to use them somewhere. And he sure can't say honey I am going to go drive around and snort meth. Honey I am askin mom for 200.00 dollars so it isn't our money. Babe, I am keeping my meth at my workplace so it isn't on our property. I don't think at least in my situation living with him will work. There are no boundaries with an addict. I gotta get him out so I can live with myself.