I could deal with it a lot better if he personalizes his statements.

All this stuff about meth most people don't recover from meth, how much it makes him feel good......

If he would take ownership of his addiction and stop writing how most people don't recover, and most people are going to relapse... all the crap he writes that is just plain wrong.

This is his problem, and he is making it all addicts problem.

We all spend a lot of time here trying to tell new members how there is hope, and you can recover.... then Robbys 10 threads about how you can't. He even gave a statistic ( fake ) saying that DR drew ( a bullshyt tv doctor that cares more about money and ratings then he does substance abuse ) Dr Drew said only less then 3% of meth addicts recover.

That is a morbid statement, it is untrue, and It completely disagrees with what we try to do here, and that is spread hope.

I don't have much empathy for him to be honest, I don't think I have any actually.

I have no statistics to go by, but my gut tells me that he is not the only person on this planet who was/is a meth addict with the same issues he has with his bpd. I am sure that some of those people have recovered.

If he ever wants to recover, then he is going to have to do the work like the rest of us, his disorder does not give him a free pass.

If he wanted no advice, just to vent... then maybe a blog would suit him better? It is kinda like going to Burger King, telling them how hungry you are, then refusing to order. He asks what there is to eat, how can he fix his hunger, but never buys anything. Does this every day.
We help people here... we give advice, thats why were here isnt it?

If he writes things that are wrong, or misinformed, There will be comments.

He can recover as soon as he decides to, and I can't hold his hand and tell him its gonna be alright.... Im just not that kinda dude!

I think he can do it if he changes his thoughts about recovery.

He constantly brags about over 2 years clean at one time...... If he made it 2 years, then he can make it forever.

Its all him!

Edited to add: I don't mean to sound harsh, But he needs to hear that he can do it. I do not feel right telling him im so sorry.....

He did it before, that tells me he has it in him. He can do it again, he needs to snap out of it and get to work

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