Yep. It's extremely disturbing...

I was first raped by him in 1998.....it wasn't until the beginning of this year....that I could finally face it, and I agreed to get help through our Rape Crisis Center...

It is way too late to press charges. So, if anyone is out there reading...please, this is ONE reason it's vital to seek help....rather it be sexual abuse or any other form of abuse....

Recently, his last baby's momma got in touch with me. And, it's very sad...he has done almost the SAME exact stuff to her....she didn't report any of it. I, foolishly, tried to warn her in the beginning (we all grew up together)....of course, he did what sociopath's are great at doing....he charmed her and she believed I was the one who was nuts as he claimed.....she had to find out the hard way as I did :-(   .......

I talked to my therapist about it....and it's very sad but true....likely, no one will ever report him...because he is only going to prey on women who are like I once was.....extremely codependent and emotionally needy.....

Sorry to digress from original topic.....but this is why I'm so non-stop on recognizing red flags, learning how to combat their abusive tactics, and getting healthy before dating again....

Hugs y'all!!!!