traveller wrote:
Don't let the family transfer the feelings meant for him onto you.

He's the force that drives ALL OF THIS.

If they really valued you... Theyd set you free.

GOD, DITTO THIS A MILLION TIMES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Your ex....isn't the only person in his family dynamic that is sick. SHOW them what it means to value oneself......you are really beginning to love yourself and value yourself. Take care of you....and you may do the biggest, most loving jester you ever did for them.....by letting them go....and in doing so, being an example of what it means to be responsible for ourselves and to truly value our lives and have some self-worth.

Do NOT let them dump their issues onto you!!!!!!!


CONGRATULATIONS on the home loan!!!!!!! The Universe is guiding you. The doors will open.....you just keep the sick doors shut!