I shouldn't of even talked to him his morning. All he did was say everything I wanted to hear then get my hopes up about calling me at a certain time. Which was 3 hours ago. I sti hVe not heard from him. I don't get why he would call and be so sweet and try to get me back then just not call me back. Idk why I am even putting myself through this.


If you are serious about that. If you are serious that you feel you should have not talked to him this morning, then take the following actions right now:

1)Change your phone number.
2)Remove his number, previous texts, emails, etc. Delete them.
3)Find a support group for loved ones of addicts, find a meeting, arrange to attend, and go.


This is the same thing addicts have to do to return to sanity. They have to QUIT doing the same shyt that made them feel like crap, they had to remove the ties to the dope from their daily lives, and they had to seek and accept some help.

Thinking about what you should do doesn't get you there. Taking action does.

If you really want to feel better, be happy, find peace, stop using (interacting with your addict).

This IS why we date. To find these things out about possible partners. It sucks to find out someone you hoped would be the love of your life isn't. But it's a hell of a lot better to find this out NOW, and still be able to make a decision that puts your life back on track, than to realize it a marriage, couple of kids, and a mortgage later. Astronomically better than finding out years from now that he will hit you and screw your best friend.

Think about that. You have every fact you need right in front of you to make the sane decision. Make it, and take action to make that decision happen.

Take sane action.
Ask and take the help available.