all i read was smack, and each other's ass. *evil grin*

seriously, i'm with Al, enjoy people. i think we labor over putting ourselves into categories too much. i like certain things that star women, fantasy like stuff, but i enjoy a monogamous sexual relationship with my husband. i think we have a certain capapcity to be bi-sexual, much more than we're willing to admit!! but it's in the people there, too, not just "women" or "men". maybe you like "a woman" or "a man", and not all of them. we can have special bonds. sure, of course!!

when we're loaded, i think there's some other dynamics going on.