Why can't we feel relief and joy that he is trying in stead of being paralyzed with fear?


It is because you are dwelling in the past and in the future.
You are robbing yourself of NOW.

*Matter Grows where Energy Goes*

Can you make a list right now of things you are grateful for?

You could start with a few things like....

Number 1.  Our son is feeling HOPE.
Number 2. Our son wants to CHANGE.
Number 3. Our son is NOT sitting in a dark room somewhere with a needle in his arm.
Number 4. WE have found a SAFE PLACE to vent our feelings.
Number 5. WE KNOW what WE WANT.......
           A. WE want to feel PEACE.
           B. WE want to let go of this hopeless feeling.
           C. Maybe WE even want to takes ourselves out to a nice dinner, or we can go for a nice walk.....

WE CAN LET GO OF THIS FEAR!!!!!!