Robby,

Consider just for a moment, that it doesn't matter if we understand exactly how you feel or not, that the solutions being offered MIGHT still be helpful, and should be tried, again and again if necessary.

If there is no harm in doing what it being suggested, then there is nothing lost by doing it.

If you prefer to suffer, and have no intention of trying suggestions from other posters, that's fine, but just say so. Say I'm not looking for help, I don't want to know what you guys think, I have no intention of following any suggestions you guys put out there, and I plan to do this my way no matter what.

Then we'll know to stop trying.

Otherwise, telling us we aren't helping you correctly is... well.. rude.