Release, my intent regarding her is for her to be well and if possible for her and I to be together, not rocket science, not hidden from anyone. And, as for being able to manipulate or thinking I can control her, I know I cannot control her and trying to be pretty up front with her. If I thought I was in control I would not be looking to Christ, just would run things myself, that is not how it works though and I will keep looking to Him. And, my social circles are growing, not shriking...and I am less and less troubled, all as I look to Christ...