co-sign...

Detective - you are assuming that you will be the conduit through which God will reach her.

You need to get yourself out of the way of her descent.
She needs to come to Jesus of her own volition - I am pretty clear you have carried the message
of His saving grace to her already.

Now get out of the way. Time and suffering may create the opening in her heart for Him to enter.

But the greatest gift we have been given is our freedom to choose. You are trying to choose for her.
As the saying goes - Let Go and Let God...

This whole situation may be a trial to bring you closer to the God of your understanding.
From what I have read of you - you need to learn about your own powerlessness and
also how to use the gift of today - and not spend it thinking about her and how to redirect
the course of her life...

Good luck to you in getting your focus on those you can help and off those you cannot.
God does not want you to waste your time and abilities in a barren field - He wants you to
turn your attention to those where your gifts will have the greatest yield.